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Please please please help?

I have terrible self confidence problems. Sometimes I cry myself to sleep. All of my friends have beaiful bodies, but my chest and butt are flatter than Kansas. Everytime I go to the clothing store, I hunt for the smallest bra, but even those never fit. I promise myself that I will never stuff or get a boob job or stuff, and I’m sticking to it. I know that looks don’t matter, but it eats me up inside. What do I do?

I’m sorry to hear that you feel so bad about yourself. Without even seeing a picture of you, I’m certain that you’re being harder on yourself than you should be.

First off, have you considered the fact that many people might find your “flat chest” attractive? There are guys out there who love that.

If you can’t wrap your mind around that and you really don’t like the way your breasts look, can I ask why you are so against breast implants? A lot of women in your position get implants and feel a lot better because of it. It’s a personal decision, but I believe that if there’s something about yourself that you just can’t live with, and you have the ability to change it, you should. Either that, or you make up your mind that you’re not going to do anything about it, and move on.

If you’re really against surgery and want to consider other options, have you thought of a water bra/gel bra? That’s even more fake than surgery in my opinion, but nevertheless, it is non-surgical. Although it will make your boobs appear bigger, you do have to realize that it is false advertising in a way. It may attract more guys (who think you have bigger boobs than you really do), which could end up causing problems when they find out it was basically a stuffed bra.

Do some thinking about this. If you’re completely against breast implants, try to come to terms with your body as it is and stop thinking so much about it. Being miserable every day of your life is no way to live.

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